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Robert
4 days ago5 min read
Victim Mentality: The Anti-Accountability Coping Mechanism
Many people don’t want to admit they had a hand in creating the situation they’re in, especially if they’re the sole reason they’re in it.
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Robert
Feb 34 min read
Connection, Because None Of Us Are Islands.
Despite what many people desperately want to think, especially those of the red pill community, we are a species that is dependent on others
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Robert
Jan 274 min read
Changes: Building or Destroying You
Change can & will come along & doesn’t care if you’re ready for it. You can let it destroy everything or you can use it to your advantage.
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Robert
Jan 194 min read
Gaining Wealth First? Dating? Or Maybe...Both?
Let’s start in general. Gaining wealth first being the primary focus of your life can actually put you in a scarcity mindset
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Robert
Jan 125 min read
Inner Child: Your Inner Compass
Our inner child has a major impact on our daily life. Its needs are the core needs we have in adulthood.
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Robert
Jan 64 min read
An Understanding Love
So what is love? At its root, love is understanding. It sounds simple enough, but there’s a lot to unpack with that word within this context
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Robert
Dec 30, 20243 min read
You vs. Your Children: Needs
Your children, while exhibiting similar traits as you, are not clones of you. Your needs & their needs are not always going to be the same.
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Robert
Dec 23, 20243 min read
Perspective: Changing Your Filter
Our ego has us seeing things through a filter, and because of this we’re limited from seeing the bigger picture.
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Robert
Dec 15, 20243 min read
Emotions: Inner Polarity
Your emotions aren’t a bad thing. No one sees joy and happiness as bad, right? But even these positive emotions have a shadow side.
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Robert
Dec 9, 20244 min read
Changing Habits: Making or Breaking You?
Many habits are due to programming and conditioning from our family and friends, sometimes intentionally, other times not so much.
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Robert
Dec 2, 20245 min read
In the Mind: Your Limiting Beliefs
These limiting beliefs take root in your subconscious & shape the way you behave in your daily life. They become self fulfilling prophecies.
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Robert
Nov 25, 20244 min read
In Between Polarity
We live in a world of polarity. This is the aspect of duality that creates division among so many of us. It triggers us to make us angry.
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Robert
Nov 17, 20243 min read
Ego: The Effective Leader
If you have a bad ego, it’s hard to be an effective leader. This week in Deeper Thoughts we’re going to discuss the ego and effective leader
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Robert
Nov 11, 20244 min read
Battle of the Inner Critic!
Many of us will make an attempt at showing compassion. But you know the one person many people rarely, if ever, do that for? Themselves.
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Robert
Nov 3, 20244 min read
Reactionary Ego
Many people today talk about killing the ego & going through an ego death. But the truth is you can’t kill the ego without killing yourself.
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Bobby Sayers
Oct 28, 20243 min read
The Masculine and Feminine Mix
We all have within us a masculine and feminine mix of energies. No it’s not 50/50 and with each person it varies what the mix is.
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Robert
Oct 20, 20243 min read
Sitting with Shadow Aspects
Due to our upbringing, programming, and conditioning from childhood, we want to deny these shadow aspects of ourselves.
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Robert
Oct 14, 20243 min read
Pushing Away What Feels Good
This week in Deeper Thoughts, let's take a look at some examples of why and how some of us push away things that bring us joy out of fear
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Robert
Oct 6, 20244 min read
Work: The Four Letter Word No One Likes.
This week in Deeper Thoughts we’re going to discuss that four letter word that no one likes, work.
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Robert
Sep 30, 20243 min read
Karma and Family
Our family can also be affected by our karma, and often are. Some situations are more overt while others take root at the subconscious level
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